Code of Conduct

  • Please use ownership language. "I" statements create a different vibe in the community and avoid name-calling or making generalizations 

  • In the spirit of fostering an affirming and safe space, let's keep it vegetarian, so no beef on blogs, thanks. Disagreements can lead to great discussions, but hate speech or harassment won't be tolerated

  • Please ask me if you'd like to use any of my content before posting anywhere and credit my site as a professional courtesy! I'll most likely say yes, but it helps to know what audiences I'm reaching. Plus... consent is sexy

  • This blog is not in any way HIPAA compliant, so please don't drop clinical questions or private shares. It's also not regularly monitored. If you need to talk, give me a call, and we can set up a therapy consultation. If you're in immediate crisis, absolutely call 9-1-1 and ask for EMS services

  • Don't Yuck anyone's Yum - The world is full of interesting, exciting, innovative erotic landscapes... so please be respectful of how other people experience pleasure as it comes up

  • Disclaimer: any comments do not reflect the writer's personal views or opinions. I will encourage you to be curious about things you don't agree with and question why you disagree

If you are in a life threatening situation, do not use this site. For emergencies, call 911 or go to your nearest emergency room.